It will require a relinquishment of SELF LIMITING BELIEFS before any Wisdom from self development can truly release its power.  You see, I believed these “TRUTHS”… and I believed they would definitely work for you… and I hoped they would somehow help me change how I thought about myself. 

What I didn’t realize was… “It was My Move First!”. 

Many of us want to see the TRUTHS work for us… and then we’ll change how we believe about ourselves… but it works in reverse.

For me I had 3 main LIMITING BELIEFS:

1)      That I offended people so I could never use my gifts

2)     That men would never listen to a woman so even if I used my gifts it wouldn’t work since I was a woman

3)     And as if that wasn’t enough… the final blow to any progress was this:  If I ever used my gifts I would end up alone in life… my biggest fear!

So no matter what “TRUTHS” were brought to me through the self development I exposed myself to… Nothing could change while I held these DISEASED ATTITUDES toward myself as true!  The “TRUTHS” in my head would be like a “bill going thru congress”… and by the time it got thru my head… it was stripped of all its power and I’d be left having proven my biggest fears to myself once again.

After 2 years of running my network marketing business as a Non-Profit… I finally changed my core belief about myself. 

My EMPOWERING BELIEF that enabled me to attract my team and be fully present to them was the following:  

“If you meet me today… and it’s the right time for you to begin your business… and you were led to me to begin your business…  then I’m going to accept that you were meant to meet me just where I am in life and it's no mistake!  I will give you everything I have to offer and LEAD FULLY and allow everything that happens from that point forward to be used in both our lives for good!” 

My Network Marketing business brought me face-to-face with QUITTING  or CHANGING!  In my jobs in the past I was able to successfully execute what was needed while still holding onto all my self-hating thinking… but not in my Network Marketing business… Thank Goodness!   I had to finally come clean and LET GO of WHAT DID NOT SERVE ME!

Some who are reading this may think this is hard to figure out… but in fact, we all seem to have 1 or 2 CORE LIMITING BELIEFS about ourselves that pretty much summarize or encompass all the others… so it’s not that hard to find these.  Remember, IT’s OUR MOVE FIRST… to RELINQUISH OUR EXCUSES and LIMITING/DISEASED BELIEFS… and then ALL the “TRUTHS” of self development can finally bear their fruit in our lives.